It starts as a flutter. A little "was that just gas?" moment. Then it becomes a definite nudge, a tiny poke from the inside you can't mistake. And before you know it, you’re getting full-on kicks to the ribs when you're just trying to sleep.
Keeping track of these movements is a simple, free way to check in on your baby. A change in their normal pattern can sometimes be the earliest sign that they might be under stress. That’s what kick counting is for.
So, when do I actually start counting?
Your doctor or midwife will probably tell you to start paying close attention and counting kicks around 28 weeks, the start of the third trimester. If you have a high-risk pregnancy, they might ask you to start earlier, around 26 weeks. By then, the baby has a pretty regular schedule of sleeping and being awake, so you'll start to notice a pattern.
Don't worry if you're not feeling a ton of movement before that. In the earlier stages, those pokes and prods can be all over the place.
The "how-to" of kick counting
The standard way to do it—the one ACOG recommends—is to see how long it takes to feel 10 movements. These can be kicks, swishes, rolls, or jabs. Hiccups don't count, since the baby can't control them.
Here's the plan:
- Pick a time. Try to do it around the same time each day, preferably when you know your baby is usually active. For many, this is after a meal or in the evening.
- Get comfy. Lie on your left side or sit with your feet up. This position is good for your circulation and can get the baby moving.
- Start a timer. Make a note of the time and start counting. Tap a button on an app for every movement.
- Count to 10. Once you hit 10 movements, stop the clock. You're looking for 10 movements within two hours. Most of the time, it will happen much faster.
I remember trying to do my first kick-counting session. It was 4:17 PM on a blistering hot July day, and my neighbor picked that exact moment to fire up a new, terrifyingly loud leaf blower. I ended up sitting in my 2011 Honda Civic with the windows up, sweating, just to get enough quiet to concentrate. The baby, of course, chose that exact time for a nap.